what are you denying?
Share Here’s what I missed out on when I spent all those years choosing not to forgive and let go, choosing to hold on to resentment. I missed how funny my mother is–hilarious, really. How she can come up with a perfectly timed comment that, reflected on years later, can still make me laugh. By … Read more
you’re nobody’s victim–not even your own
Share The whole Victim concept (yes, this calls for capitalization) is a tricky one. It’s tricky because it’s hard to acknowledge. No one wants to own that they’re being a Victim, the agent of their own suffering. That and–Victims get a bad rap. Anger? We just try to avoid it. Sadness? There’s compassion for what … Read more
unfolding unpeeling unmasking
Share Since starting my Coaching practice in 2006, I’ve spoken with hundreds of people, all coming from different states, different countries, different walks of life. Same age, older younger; same income, more, less; mothers, mothers-to-be, women who give birth to life other than children. They all have shared a few qualities: Intelligence. Hunger (the good … Read more
