even breathing feels alright

You know that feeling you get, right after a really long, hard, cry–suddenly something in your body unlocks (for me it’s across my chest, my heart) and then shoulders drop and everything feels incredibly calm and clear? It’s possible to sit with...

on manifesting a man, money, and anything else

“Manifesting” has become one of those terms that I almost dislike–it’s just so over-used, so patently misunderstood. It’s been capitalized upon, used to screw people out of money, and occasionally I’ve seen it used to shame people...

i know :: one thing :: that I love you

  Aside from all of the usual loveliness that people comment upon with their partners–kind, generous, a good listener, etc.,–my man is Italian. Truly, my life is blessed, yes? He’s also one hell of a graphic designer. He don’t come cheap, but...
disheveled is not a credential

disheveled is not a credential

My beautiful friend, Diana. I was talking to Diana after we’d just completed a Bikram yoga class that had started at 6am. Some friends had given us both just the teensiest bit of shit for being willing to get up at 5am to make a 6am yoga class. There seemed to...
tender

tender

I found this meme at a blog and started looking around to figure out who started it, and didn’t find it (everyone was linking to someone else who linked to someone else…) and now I’m not remembering the blog I found it on. Well, then. Sheesh. I...