are you a good client?

I said in this post that a good coach, counselor, or therapist will piss you off a bit. Now I want to say this: the most transformative coaching, counseling, or therapy sessions are those that are co-created, with both parties taking responsibility for the experience...
Well, then–if you say so.

Well, then–if you say so.

I was leaving a meeting consisting of narrative therapists and those interested in that approach when a woman who had been in the meeting stopped me. “It must have felt terrible to have had that counselor being so unsupportive,” she said, her face pulled into a...

blowing our cover

I have this fantasy where Pema Chodron and I go hangout for an afternoon at Peet’s. She is wearing her brown and gold and saffron Tibetan Buddhist robes, and perhaps she’s having jasmine tea while I’m sipping my small single-shot soy latte with no foam, and we’re just...