expectations low, vision high

You already know that I’m not a big fan of expectations. They’re limiting in a multitude of ways, and are a fertile ground for breeding Stories about what it did or did not mean when the expectations were, or were not, met. And– All that said, it’s demeaning to ourselves, to our dreams, when we […]


you are indestructible

At your core, your essence, you are indestructible. There is nothing that anyone could ever do to you or take from what is really you. No one could possibly damage that intimate, untouchable spirit within. What you really are is everything all at once, and nothing at all, all at the same time–without boundaries. Limitless. […]


what I would have told you

  Before loving someone for this long, I would have told you: –that if it’s “meant to be,” it’s easy; –that it would be unimaginable to think of hurting one another; –that there would only ever be the best times ahead; —that problems in a relationship can be solved simply by communicating better; and —that […]