what to do when love isn’t safe

Everyone who starts to do personal growth work has something, somewhere, that holds them back. Chronic procrastination. Doubt and worry that lead to anxiety. A pattern of self-sabotage, such as telling the most unsupportive people of your plans as soon as you’ve gotten excited about them. And here’s a big one that particularly affects intelligent […]


how to love your way right through your own personal tragedy

  “Ring the bells that still can ring forget your perfect offering there is a crack in everything that’s how the light gets in.” –Leonard Cohen   So, you’re… Struggling with infertility. Someone (with kids) says, “You’ll be okay–you can always adopt.” or– You’ve been unemployed for over a year. People (with jobs) keep saying, […]


courageous time management

People ask me–a lot–about “balance.” Time management. Wanting to get their shit together. They ask me how in the world I do what I do–not in a creepy fan way, but in a simple, “I’d like to get some information on how you manage to rock this out” kind of way. How do I, on […]