the divine wisdom of not needing to be right

the divine wisdom of not needing to be right

Releasing the need to be right feels, to me, like being in a sweat lodge. Have you ever done that? You first enter the lodge and immediately think, “Oh helllllllll no. No way. I can’t do this.” But you take a breath and decide that you’re going to give it a go (mostly...
the fear of caring and the courage to give a damn

the fear of caring and the courage to give a damn

The critics who site narcissism as the reason behind sweeping tides of apathy in the realms of politics and social justice are getting it wrong. In most cases, people aren’t even apathetic. They care, deeply. In fact, the truth is that we are afraid to confront how...
Coming December 12th: The Free 2015 Courageous Living Planner

Coming December 12th: The Free 2015 Courageous Living Planner

  Free for subscribers on Friday, December 12th: The 2015 Courageous Living Planner. Note: this is a different kind of “planner.” It’s not about setting to-do lists of goals, or achieving in order to feel like enough. It’s about honoring the...
will you receive your blessings?

will you receive your blessings?

Like many of you, I have spent a good amount of time and money on–to use the technical term–Healing My Shit. The old stuff, the inner kid stuff, the wounds, the chronic niggling stuff that came back around when I thought I was truly done with it, the stuff...