finishing things you start

finishing things you start

Look–if you’re reading this, you already know whether or not you’re someone who needs to work on finishing things you start , –or if you’re someone who is good at finishing things you start and actually, that’s a perfectionistic...
courage is for everyone

courage is for everyone

“Everyone is talking about courage, these days,” a friend said to me. “Do you ever feel weird about that? Like you’ve been talking about it, all these years, and suddenly other people are co-opting it?” The short answer? No. I’ve been doing the self-help thing since I...
finding courage

finding courage

Dear You, People talk about finding courage. But really, you’re not “finding courage.” You’re practicing courage, creating it as a daily and consistent practice of walking into the fire of your fear and emerging as a braver, even more courageous self. Important: this...
Courage to change your life

Courage to change your life

Dear you, I know what it feels like, to stand at the precipice of Big Life Change, and to desire the courage to change your life . I’ve been there, before. Many times. The courage to change your life is not for the faint of heart. I understand the swirling confusion...
Frazey Ford and enlightenment through ecstasy

Frazey Ford and enlightenment through ecstasy

Oh, Frazey Ford. I love her name, her voice, and how she rocks her curves in lame and sequins. Most of all, I love these lyrics from her song, “Done.” And I’m sorry that you don’t like your life I fought for my own victories and for the beauty in my life My joy, my...