Frazey Ford and enlightenment through ecstasy

Frazey Ford and enlightenment through ecstasy

Oh, Frazey Ford. I love her name, her voice, and how she rocks her curves in lame and sequins. Most of all, I love these lyrics from her song, “Done.” And I’m sorry that you don’t like your life I fought for my own victories and for the beauty in my life My joy, my...
Really Fucking Happy

Really Fucking Happy

This felt daring for me to admit, even just a few months ago: I want to be really, really fucking happy. Not kinda happy. Not just as happy as everyone else. Not content. Not as happy as one can reasonably expect to be. I want to be Really Fucking Happy. I spent a lot...
you matter

you matter

What you think, matters. What you believe, matters. What you create, matters. What you desire, matters. What you want, matters. It all matters. You matter. So many people think, “It’s all been done before. It doesn’t really matter, anyway. No one will notice.” Here’s...
You’re not lazy. You’re just afraid.

You’re not lazy. You’re just afraid.

  You’re not lazy, you know. You’re just afraid. That’s why you buy up self-help programs and sign up for e-courses and then don’t actually implement the changes. You’re afraid, hon. Just afraid. No biggie. We all are. You think you’re missing something. You...
being put together

being put together

You run a business AND you have a baby–how in the world do you do it? You’ve got your shit together. I can’t believe how much you can get done. These are the things that people say to me. They are not totally untrue statements–more like top-layer...
the 2014 recap: what did you learn this year?

the 2014 recap: what did you learn this year?

First, my best moment. The moment that was everything: meeting Anika Jane. June 2, 2014. And now on to the lessons: 1. Forget about “being realistic.” This is an oldie, but goodie. I’ve lost count of how many times someone has told me to “be realistic” about something...