Navigating the Messy Middle: How to Go From Where You Are, To Who You’re Becoming
Transformation isn’t a straight line — it’s a stretch of uncertainty between letting go of who you were and stepping into who you’re becoming.
In this episode of Your Courageous Life, Kate explores how to navigate that uncomfortable in-between space — the “messy middle” where old patterns are falling away and new ones haven’t fully formed. You’ll learn why this stage feels so disorienting, how to stop rushing through it, and how to recognize small signs of growth even when it feels like nothing’s changing.
If you’ve been questioning yourself or feeling like you’re stuck between chapters, this episode will remind you that confusion isn’t failure — it’s the bridge to becoming.
Here’s Why You Don’t Feel Confident (Things You’re Doing Without Realizing It)
If you’ve been working hard, growing, achieving — and still don’t feel confident — you’re not alone.
In this episode of Your Courageous Life, Kate breaks down the hidden habits that quietly erode confidence, even in capable people. You’ll learn why constantly seeking validation undermines self-trust, how humility sometimes becomes self-erasure, and why waiting to “feel ready” keeps you stuck in doubt.
Grounded in psychology and courage-based practice, this episode teaches you how to rebuild authentic confidence from the inside out — one small act of self-trust at a time.
Because confidence doesn’t come from hype or perfection — it comes from choosing yourself.
What to Do When You Feel Jealous: How to Turn Envy Into Empowerment
Everyone feels jealous sometimes — even the most grounded, self-aware people. But what if jealousy isn’t a flaw to hide, but a signal to pay attention to?
In this episode of Your Courageous Life, Kate breaks down the psychology of jealousy and how to use it as a map back to your own desires. You’ll learn how to decode what your jealousy is really telling you, how to stop comparing your life to other people’s, and how to transform envy into clarity and motivation.
If you’ve been caught in the scroll of comparison or beating yourself up for not feeling “happy for others,” this conversation offers a compassionate, practical way out.
Because jealousy isn’t proof that you’re behind — it’s a reminder that something inside you still wants more.
How to Stop Negative Self-Talk: 3 Psychology-Backed Shifts That Actually Work
Negative self-talk can quietly erode your confidence, motivation, and emotional well-being — but it’s not a personality flaw. It’s a learned pattern your brain can unlearn.
In this episode of Your Courageous Life, Kate explores three psychology-backed ways to shift the inner critic using tools from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), cognitive reframing, and self-compassion research. You’ll learn how to separate yourself from self-critical thoughts, replace judgment with curiosity, and build a “counter-evidence” list to retrain your brain for truth instead of fear.
This isn’t about fake positivity — it’s about building real psychological safety within yourself so you can live with more courage and clarity.