You are held--do you know this? People are rooting for you. The love is unnameable, and it's mostly shown because these people chose to do an amazing thing: show up in support of the work. Thank you for asking this one, simple question: How can I help? One simple question, and another human being knows--she is held.

Danielle LaPorte joins me for a conversation on online cliques, promotion with integrity, and her conditions of "Yes". When you're done, ask yourself how you can rise to the call to create the kind of collaborative marketing that makes your business beautiful, without subverting your integrity. Really use this video interview as a jumping off point for creating a plan to shine bright, on your own terms.

When it's time for life to change, you've got to be willing to change--and willing to examine the lies that your defenses will tell, in order to keep you from changing. These are the lies that you tell, to avoid needing to change. Once you recognize them? You’re free.

The courage to go after your true desires starts with realizing where you’ve been investing time and effort into substitute desires—the stuff that doesn’t really fill you up or make you feel good, but that you accept because you’re trying to “be realistic.” In this post, I share how you can recognize when that’s happening and change course.