Shifting from the old power dynamic in a family to one of co-creation? I'll be honest: It’s tricky. And challenging. And a far lengthier blog post. But in short, it works something like this: drop your own judgements first, and start (respectfully) speaking into what you need, and then drop your judgements again, and invite others to (respectfully) speak into their needs, too.

My house, my rules. There is an alternative: let go of the power dynamics, and start co-creating. It looks something like this: Let me be crystal clear: everyone deserves respect. However, compliance and respect are different. True respect is not about hierarchy.

In this post, I walk you through how to create an online program so that you can create your own!

Taking responsibility for other people's experiences? Exhausting. Absolutely, positively, exhausting. Also? It doesn't work. The reality is that we cannot be responsible for another person’s experience.