Yep, you've spent years doing the hard work. You might be ready for enlightenment through ecstasy .

Dunno about you, but I want to be Really Fucking Happy . If you're going to want something, why not want this?

Here's how to stop feeling resentful (with no white-knuckling your way through). Stop feeling resentful in a way that's authentic, that isn’t about sticking it to someone and punishing them with silence—stop feeling resentful from a place of choosing what’s right for your life.

The people who love you most will be the ones who push you through the hardest grief you ever walk -- they will push you to not let that grief eclipse your life.